Why does everyone seem to hate me?

Cognitive distortions refer to irrational patterns of thinking that affect your perception of reality. Many people experience them occasionally. The feeling that everyone hates you can happen as a result of a few different distortions: Catastrophizing.

How do you deal with classmates who don’t like you?

If it is just a small minority of your classmates that hate you, do your best and try to make amends with them. Treat them as how you would like to be treated and respect them. If it doesn’t work out, just ignore them and get on with your life.

How do you deal with the worst classes at school?

Spend time with people who are positive towards you. Even the worst class is doable if you know you can exchange funny stories at lunch with your best friend. You may not get to choose who is in your class, but you do have a choice whether you carry anything negative from class beyond the classroom.

Why do I have a problem with one class but not others?

If you are having a problem with one of your classes but not others, it means that some people are able to value your presence and treat your politely. Focus on the classes you have friends in and know you are liked.

Do teachers care if students hate them or not?

Now, some teachers don’t care whether students hate them or not, and that’s fine. But I am not one of those teachers. I care because a) I don’t particularly enjoy being hated, and b) because I have found that students are much more receptive to the material when they are not also busy plotting to slash your tires.

Should you be friends with people outside of class?

If you find that even after trying to make yourself a part of the conversation, you do not have much to say about the subjects they talk about, you may just not share any common interests with the group. There may be little need to be friends with these people outside of class. Ignore them whenever possible.