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Why do adult children hate me?

Why do adult children hate me?

Sometimes mental health issues are to blame; maybe your child has a mood disorder that has gone undiagnosed. Other times, people can just be mean. Perhaps their family and friends have not been the best influences, and they choose a negative path in adulthood.

What to do when your daughter hates you?

1) Accept the fact that your grown daughter has her own valid reasons for disliking you as a parent and that arguing with her or trying to tell her 2) Validate your daughter’s emotions to show her that you’re willing to talk to her about the things that cause her to hate you. 3) Be honest with yourself and your daughter about your flaws as a parent. 4) Write your daughter a letter of apology and attempt to make amends by promising to talk openly and honestly with her about her feelings. 5) Maintain a consistent dialog with your daughter about her feelings and thoughts on the situation.

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When your child hurts other children?

Speak with your child immediately. Let them know that certain behaviors are not acceptable and there will be serious consequences if they continue.

  • Take steps to ensure the safety of other children that may be at risk.
  • Reach out to professionals.
  • Report to authorities.
  • When your adult child rejects you?

    When your adult child rejects you: Understanding your anger If you’re angry over your estranged adult child’s rejection, recognize that you’re not alone. When your adult child rejects you, one reason for your anger may be a sense of powerlessness. Many of us have tried to understand our grown sons’ or daughters’ actions.

    What do you do when your kid hates school?

    What to do when your child ‘hates’ school. If your child fits into the second category leading to school refusal — that of being weak in an academic area or two — assessment and remediation should do the trick. Consult with your child’s teacher or guidance counselor to get information on achievement testing.