What to say when she says shes fat?

“This is what to say when your friend says she’s fat.” It seems so common that girlfriends complain about their weight to each other but how you respond to them can really make the scales spin. Saying you look fat doesn’t help anyone. “I feel so fat.” “Do I look fat?” “I’m starting a diet on Monday.” “God I’m fat.”

Should I tell my girlfriend that she’s gaining weight?

We should be empathetic. Regardless, obese and overweight people are treated with unbelievable cruelty on a day-to-day basis. And when you tell your girlfriend that you notice her weight gain, she’s probably going to think that you’re piling on. Therefore, it is absolutely your job to get out ahead of those messages.

Should I break up with my girlfriend because she gained weight?

A logical woman will come around. If all else fails, you might have to cut and run I don’t condone breaking up with a woman purely because she has gained weight, but if she has completely abandoned any regard for her well-being because she’s found the protective cocoon of a long-term relationship, it’s indicative of a much larger problem.

When to bring up weight gain in a relationship?

This may sound counter-intuitive, but pretty much regardless of the issue at hand, if you’re concerned about something in your relationship, you should bring it up immediately. Yes, I mean immediately. Yes, even if it’s something touchy. And weight gain is definitely a touchy subject.

Should I talk to my girlfriend about online dating?

Eventually your frustrations with your partner, however valid and well-meaning they were originally, fester into a nice little swamp of bitterness and complacence that eventually swallows the whole relationship, and you’re back on your favorite suite of online dating sites. So: Talk to your girlfriend. You’re a big boy.