What to do if you are hurt by your parents?
What to do if you are hurt by your parents?
Please take away what might be useful and discard the rest.
- Acknowledge your anger. “I need to move on; it’s been too long.”
- Talk about the hurt.
- Set boundaries with your parents.
- Love yourself and believe in your worthiness.
Is it OK to let go of toxic parents?
You Don’t Have to Stay Toxic parents want to be in control of almost every aspect of your life. One of the best things you can do is to let go of your guilt for wanting [to] control your life yourself and start making decisions on your own. And you don’t even have to spend the holidays with your parents.
Do children really love their parents?
“Children do not love their parents, but they are obligated to them.” I accepted this as fact as I knew nothing else and kept telling them I loved them because they always said they loved me. That’s the way it was.
Why do I Love my mom and dad so much?
I, too, love mom and dad simply because they are my parents, but I think I would have felt the same even if they weren’t. I love who they are as people, each with their own individual traits – and, together, forming an amazing super-team that’s made me who I am today and taught me what life is all about.
Do the worse parents treat their children the better they are?
She said, “The worse parents treat their children, the better the children are to that parent they will be because they need that parent’s love all the more since they don’t have it.” She didn’t realize how distorted that was.
Do children love their parents if they never get approval?
She didn’t realize how distorted that was. Yes, the children might try harder to gain approval from where they never get it to ensure their survival which has become a habit to them from early on so is not recognized in adulthood what a bad and destructive habit this is, but that does not mean the children will actually love their parents.