Why the narcissist goes back to the ex?

Why do narcissists come back to old relationships? Because Narcissists are confident you will take them back. Unfortunately for the victims of narcissist abuse, once they have been discarded, they are still emotionally connected to their abuser.

Does the narcissist miss you after no contact?

Will a narcissist come back after No Contact? In most cases, the answer is yes, if you let them. Sometimes they will get back with you only to break up with you (or discard you) later.

Why do narcissists return to their former victims?

There are several factors but one of the chief factors why narcissists return to former victims is the role which you are allocated post escape/discard. The application of the benign follow-up hoover which does not seek the restoration of the formal relationship relies on you conforming to a particular role and the fuel which flows from it.

Does the narcissist prefer you over the new supply?

In your heart, you may want very much for the narcissist to prefer you over the new supply but, the fact is, narcissists don’t really miss any of their former supply sources. Narcissists don’t stay in relationships because they emotionally bond with their partner (s). Narcissists typically have what is called an avoidant attachment style.

What does it mean when the narcissist says things aren’t working out?

Therefore, when the narcissist says things aren’t working out with the new supply and that they made a mistake, you’re feeling that maybe there’s something about you that the narcissist prefers. This is a story we make up in our minds because we haven’t yet accepted that the narcissist simply cannot emotionally bond with anyone.

What is hoovering in a narcissist always returns?

A Narcissist Always Returns (The Hoovering) By timing these reappearances perfectly, the narcissist conditions his victim to not only expect him to come back but also to expect him to come back at a much later date, thus giving him more play time in the interim. All of this is part of the narcissist’s control/validate tactic which, in turn,…