Why is my boyfriend comparing me to his ex?

Even if he speaks about her in a negative way, the fact of the matter is that the thought of her is still fresh in his mind. If your new boyfriend starts to compare you to his ex, this is a sign that he may not be over her just yet. Take this as a sign that he has unresolved feelings for his ex and get out.

Why did I say my ex’s name?

So, in your prior relationship, your brain became used to saying your ex’s name. It became a habit through repetition. Now obviously your brain has gotten the memo that you’re no longer with your ex, but the sheer habit of saying your ex’s name has left a residue, causing you to slip back into the habit now and again.

What does it mean when someone calls you by the wrong name?

Misnaming typically occurs within a social group: When family members misname other family members, the incorrect names they most often use are names of other people within the family. In other words, your mom calls you by your sibling’s name because she loves both of you, and associates you with one another.

What does it mean when your ex calls you crazy?

They call you crazy. “Crazy” is what people call girls when they want to invalidate their feelings and experiences. It’s a red flag that they aren’t mature enough to really listen to you, and own up to their behavior. And if they swear up and down that every single one of their exes are crazy, it may be a sign you should run.

What does it mean when a guy says you Can’t take a joke?

If you tell him, “I don’t think that’s funny,” or you ask him to stop “poking fun at you” he may become defensive, irritated or angry. He tells you, “You’re too sensitive” or “You can’t take a joke.” His blaming statements are very convincing and you wonder if you are over-reacting.

How do you know if your boyfriend is emotionally abusing you?

His blaming statements are very convincing and you wonder if you are over-reacting. You question your ability to reason and you doubt your perception of his abuse. His denial of your experience of his abuse adds another layer to his abuse. He makes comments about you in front of friends that mock or belittle you.

How can I tell if my boyfriend is being disrespectful?

The only people who can really evaluate how a relationship is working are the people who are in the relationship. That said, the behaviors you are describing would naturally raise concerns with those who care about you. The words he is using, especially “c—” and “w—-,” are aggressive words that are generally considered pretty disrespectful.