Why do we push people away when we stay single?

When we listen to these “voices,” we engage in behaviors that push people away. When we remain single, it is not for the reasons that we’re telling ourselves. Our lack of confidence leaves us giving off signals of not being open, creating a catch 22 in the realm of dating.

Are men really single when they’re separated?

Men’s relationships frequently overlap; they won’t leave one partner until they find another, so they are never really single. Both Julia (pictured left) and Lucy (centre) have struggled with online dating since separating from their husbands. Laura (right) agrees and says dating sites are full of men her age and older who just seem lazy

Why do some people choose to be single?

Clearly, some people are single because they choose to be. They are simply not interested in being in a serious relationship at this time in their life. Others are single due to the circumstances of their lives. They may have just gotten out of a meaningful relationship or have dated relentlessly and just haven’t found someone with whom they’re

Is there a lack of available decent men for women?

‘Traditionally women go for men who are their age or slightly older, so they are left wondering where all the men have gone.’ When Jo coaches women on dating, she tells them to accept the reality. ‘It’s just a fact that there is a lack of available decent men,’ she says. ‘It’s tough when you’re looking for love.

Why are some people single for years at a time?

Some people are single for years because of unwanted outsiders always melding and pro-shaping their life with out that single person even knowing. Than after years of “no-where” relationships and one night stands and or medical problems, single, is really all their is.

Do you feel like life has moved on Without You?

You didn’t get any of that and now you’re at an age where hooking up is commonplace and you’re still hoping that maybe someone wants to hold your hand sometime. You feel as if Life has moved on without you and as more and more time passes you have less and less of an idea of where you’re even supposed to start.