Why do people feel the need to shout?

Many people yell because it is their go-to coping mechanism in difficult situations. But this coping mechanism does not have good long term results. If a person is a yeller because it is how they have learned to cope in life, they need to get some help in finding better ways in regulating their emotions.

Is it normal to raise your voice in an argument?

Raising your voice doesn’t just raise your vocal cords. It also raises the level of emotion in an argument. I get it — you’re frustrated, and sometimes the only way to release your anger is though speaking louder. However, this is usually learned from unhealthy patterns you saw growing up.

Is it normal to yell during a fight?

This is where you need to pause and take a breath. “Raising your voice is perfectly normal in couples experiencing conflict,” says George. “We raise our voices as emotion increases and also when we are having difficulty expressing feelings and needs. When arguments escalate, so can voices.”

Why do we shout in anger?

In anger we shout and bring all those secrets out. So, sometimes we shout to release stress also. But shouting is never a good idea. It may create many other problems in a single go. People may start recognising you as a weak personality and will fear to open up with you.

Why do we shout at people?

We shout to suppress someone elses voice. We shout when we can’t win an arguement because we are wrong. We shout when our ego hurts and we don’t want to accept our defeat. In short, we shout to prove our superiority when we realize we are inferior but dare not to accept it at all.

Why do people interpret things differently when you get angry?

People can interpret situations differently, so a situation that makes you feel very angry may not make someone else feel angry at all (for example, other reactions could include annoyance, hurt or amusement). But just because we can interpret things differently, it doesn’t mean that you’re interpreting things ‘wrong’ if you get angry.

What does it mean to be afraid of your own anger?

This could mean that you now feel afraid of your own anger and don’t feel safe expressing your feelings when something makes you angry. Those feelings might then surface at another unconnected time, which may feel hard to explain.