Why do none of my friends invite me to anything?

It sounds like you are expecting them to invite you, but you aren’t showing interest in it to them. Depending on the nature of your relationship, they may well like you but not think of automatically including you in their activities. You should offer to do things with them sometime.

How do I get my friends to invite me something?

Ask a friend that you know is going to the party to hang out one-on-one at the time of the party—they may tell you about the party and invite you to go with them. If someone mentions the party, say “wow, that sounds really fun” and look them in the eye. They will likely invite you if they are able to.

Why don’t my friends invite me to a party?

Being spontaneous is nice, but if it holds up the other people in your group, your friends may just skip you next time. If you’ve made it clear you don’t like someone that hangs out with your group (even occasionally), your friends may just not invite you to avoid any kind of drama.

Why don’t people invite me to meet ups anymore?

I agree to this. If someone doesn’t get consistently invited to meet ups, then it is usually because the group doesn’t count him/her as “one of them” for some reason. The exact reason is hard to guess for an outsider and it is possible that even the group doesn’t think about it (at least consciously).

Why am I not getting invited to any social events anymore?

In a larger group, it’s harder for new people to get to know each other. So perhaps some new folks have entered the scene and your friend just wants to get to know them a little better, away from the hustle and bustle of your regular group. If that’s the case, you might not get invited to a dinner or event.

Do you get upset when you don’t ask your friends out?

You can’t get upset with friends that exclude you when you don’t ask them to do things, either. (You know that old saying that in order to have friends you first have to be one.)