Why do narcissists like to fight?

Since a narcissists goal is to dominate and be perceived as right at all costs, they often use aggression. Not only that, then they spin it around by presenting it as if by reacting to it or by ignoring them you are the one whos unreasonable, too emotional, and aggressive against them.

Do narcissists love to argue?

Become boring by not arguing with them. Narcissists love a fight. They will bait you, and poke you, and incite you. They will drop politically polarizing comments and insults. When you don’t take the bait, it is actually frustrating for them.

Can you win an argument with a narcissist?

Don’t defend or explain yourself. Their attacks will feel personal, and most arguments are. But narcissists tend to be equal opportunity offenders who will argue mercilessly with anyone. Be clear on your goal for the argument—because some goals are impossible.

Why do narcissists pick fights and play innocent?

Narcissists pick fights (and subsequently play innocent) because they cannot afford to look like the fool in public. They must win these arguments at all costs. Even the arguments and drama that they create! They are attention-seeking toxic individuals who cannot stand to be on the proverbial back burner.

What does it mean when a narcissist says Provocative Things?

Many Narcissists say provocative and nasty things to get a response from you. Usually they do it because they feel angered or insulted by something you have done and want to start a fight. Or, they may be anxious or angry about something else entirely and are taking it out on you.

Why do narcissists use irrational argument tactics?

“Narcissistic people are famous for using irrational argument tactics to time-suck and abuse unsuspecting victims. Narcissistic people do not care what they pick the fight about. It could be about politics, religion, education, the children, what movie to go see, household duties, etc.

How do you deal with an exhibitionistic narcissist?

I expect an apology.” (You won’t get an apology during a fight, just a longer fight). Exhibitionistic Narcissists love to display their knowledge to an admiring audience. It is fairly easy to distract them by asking a question about a topic that interests them. For your own sake, try and pick one that interests you as well.