Why do I still care so much about my ex?

Sometimes, people are still thinking about their Ex for months, or even years after the relationship ended because of lingering insecurities or comparisons they’re making — even subconsciously. This is often true when your Ex has moved on before you have.

Is it wrong to still love your ex?

Is it OK to still love your ex? Yes. It is okay and very normal to still love (or have feelings for) someone you loved deeply after the relationship has ended. It’s important to acknowledge your feelings and give yourself time to grieve the loss of the relationship.

Do I really still love my ex?

It is completely normal to love an ex still after the relationship is over. For many people, it can be hard to move on from real love. When we fall in love, everything seems so perfect, and we feel it will last forever. Unfortunately, that’s not always true, and sometimes relationships do end.

Is it normal to be obsessed with your ex?

If so, you’re not unusual. Despite the fact that a past relationship may have ended for very good reasons, memory tends to soften the harsh edges of those difficulties. Your ex starts to seem pretty desirable—and you can’t help but focus on your current partner’s flaws. There are several good reasons for becoming stuck on your ex.

Why am I stuck on my Ex?

There are several good reasons for becoming stuck on your ex: One, that person isn’t around anymore. Those small things that bother you about your current partner, like the tendency to leave dirty glasses around the house, are apparent to you on a daily basis.

Is it normal to think about your ex all the time?

Thinking about an ex isn’t unusual. It’s normal to wonder what someone is up to or to think about old times fondly. Even though it’s common, be sure to keep your thoughts from veering into negative territory. For example, pining for an old lover likely isn’t the healthiest thing for you in the long run.

Should you talk to an online therapist about your ex?

Beyond that, when you spend all your time thinking about your ex, you’re less likely to notice new relationship possibilities. If you just can’t stop thinking about your ex, it might be time to consider talking to an online therapist.