Why do I keep trying to push my boyfriend away?

Fear of intimacy Pushing people away is one way of avoiding intimacy. In fact, this avoidance can act as a defense mechanism for people afraid of getting hurt in relationships. Even if you think you’ve healed from a past relationship that ended badly, worries about further rejection might linger in your subconscious.

What to do when you have pushed your boyfriend away?

How to repair your relationship and stop pushing your partner away.

• Get clear on what you want.
• Re-establish trust.
• Find your self-esteem.
• Be more fluid.
• Look for joy in intimacy.
• Start opening up.
• Forgive and close the chapter.

Why does my boyfriend get defensive when he talks to me?

It’s likely he feels he is being misunderstood every time he talks to you. Maybe a past argument between the two of you has left him on the defending end of the stick. If so, It’s essential to know what’s behind your partner’s behavior, but it’s not enough reason to eliminate the need to be better.

What does your boyfriend say when you say I don’t feel that way?

If I say “I don’t feel that way”, sometimes he’ll say “Yes you do” and keep repeating it over and over several times. My anger just escalates.

What does it mean when your boyfriend doesn’t care about you?

He knows you want to go to graduate school, medical school, or law school, but he just doesn’t care. Instead of supporting you and helping you search for the best programs, he says, “Oh, that’s nice.” This could be part of a much larger issue: He might not be interested in many of your preferences and desires, big or small.

What to do when you are not happy around your boyfriend?

Trust your instincts and don’t overanalyze your emotions. If you are not happy around him a majority of the time, pay attention to these feelings. This is especially true if you are in a situation (e.g., party, favorite restaurant, etc.) that is supposed to be enjoyable.