Why are narcissists nicer to strangers?

Through their manipulation tactics, a narcissist can influence how others view them. This includes them appearing to be caring, intelligent, and friendly so others see them as competent. The issue is with the narcissist and their need to use others as a way to make themselves feel better.

Why are some people nicer to strangers than others?

We are often nicer to strangers because we have not been hurt by them. All of the people who we have known for some time and who have become a part of our lives have hurt us at some point and because of this we withhold some things from them. It comes down to trust. The only reason we lie or withhold information is because we don’t trust people.

Do you treat your loved ones less kindly than strangers?

We shouldn’t treat our loved ones less kindly than we do strangers. But the reality is that we often do. The suggestions above are just a few strategies to improve your tolerance of your loved ones’ idiosyncrasies, so that, to take one perspective, you can reach the end of your life without feeling regret about how you treated them.

Why is it important to have people around your loved ones?

Further, you’ll have a chance to observe and appreciate the better selves your loved ones have inside them, which are also being pulled out of them by the presence of others. In short, the dynamic between you and your loved ones will change, and generally for the better, when other people are present.

Does our tolerance for things we’ve always disliked diminish over time?

After all, it’s not that all the wonderful things we loved about our loved ones when they first entered our lives have gradually become repulsive to us (“I hate that you’re so kind to everyone!”). Rather, it’s that our tolerance for all the things we’ve always disliked invariably diminishes over time.