Why am I awkward around my ex?
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Why am I awkward around my ex?
Sometimes, being uncomfortable around an ex could be as a result of the situations surrounding the breakup. When it comes to moving on from a relationship, especially the type that hit really hard and broke you, and left you really hurt and damaged, there is a lot more involved.
How can I stop feeling awkward around my ex?
Instead of becoming a victim of the awkward silences and spiteful remarks, here are five tips to remain civil with an ex you can’t avoid.
- Don’t bad-mouth them.
- Keep the conversation simple.
- Involve others in the interaction.
- Remember your boundaries.
- Let the past go.
Why do I find it hard to talk to my ex?
As an ex, it usually means there was some pain or hurt during the break-up. There may be pieces of yourself that have changed because of going through this event and talking to an ex may make you think about these changes, whether they be good or bad, and that can make talking to them difficult.
Why is my ex acting uncomfortable around me?
Some people like conflict, but most people don’t like conflict. And so, an ex who’s acting uncomfortable, who they’re acting strange, they’re uneasy, they’re awkward around you, it’s oftentimes because they’re feeling guilty or they’re feeling like, “I hurt you and she must hate me.”
Why do I feel uncomfortable around a certain person?
Why do I feel uncomfortable around people? You might feel uncomfortable around someone because you have feelings for them, or because it’s a toxic or intimidating person. Discomfort can also be a sign of underlying social anxiety or lack of social skills. For example, not knowing what to say can make you worry about awkward silence.
Why do I feel uncomfortable when I don’t have a girlfriend?
The truth is, the reason why I felt uncomfortable was because I was already feeling inferior for not having a girlfriend. I was already feeling like a loser about it, and I was afraid of having this “defect” or imperfection exposed.
Why do I feel nervous around my family?
So you may be nervous and feel less confident around your family or relatives because you’re afraid of losing control. You want to remain the one in charge of your life, and it’s harder to do that when you’re around people who have been able to control you in the past. (And who may feel like they deserve to continue controlling you now.)