What you shouldnt do to Infj?

Here are 7 things you should definitely avoid saying to an INFJ.

• “Calm down!”
• “You’re just not trying hard enough.”
• “I’m fine.” — when you know you aren’t.
• “No one will ever understand you.”
• “You’re doing too much.”
• “You make it difficult to love you.”
• “You’re so boring.

What annoys INFJs the most?

Things the INFJ Hates

1. Staying on the surface.
2. Manipulation and deceit.
3. People who take and rarely give.
4. Arguing just to argue.
5. Constant chaos.
6. Not getting enough alone time.
7. When people are inconsiderate.
8. Having to compromise their values.

What stresses an INFJ?

INFJ personality types tend to be stressed and drained by… They find crowded gatherings and meeting lots of new people to be stressful. INFJs are naturally reserved, so they tend to avoid the overstimulation that can come with crowds.

What type of people do INFJ hate?

An INFJ, who is averse to conflict but strong in their own way, hates being vulnerable. The perfectionist in them needs that control, and vulnerability threatens it. They often keep their sensitivities to themselves, so if you ever do glimpse them, it means they’ve trusted you immensely by letting you in.

What does it mean to be an INFJ?

Being an INFJ is not only defined by the things that make life difficult for us, but it’s also defined by the good, by the gifts of our personality type, just as each personality type has its special gifts. If you take only one thought with you as you go through your day, let it be this: who you are is a special gift.

How do you make an INFJ feel better?

However, the best thing you can do for an INFJ is to let them talk about something if they need to. INFJs usually feel better just being able to express their feelings and concerns.

What happens when an INFJ Cuts you Out of their life?

It’s when an INFJ cuts you out of their life because they are extremely hurt. They’re not doing this because they hate you, rather, it’s because they’ve decided they can no longer deal with the emotional pain you cause them. Remember that INFJs tend to be quite sensitive and emotional.

How do INFJs deal with criticism?

INFJs usually feel better just being able to express their feelings and concerns. Don’t judge, criticize, or offer solutions (unless the INFJ directly asks for help — sometimes we really do just need a practical fix).