What to do if your girlfriend keeps arguing with you?
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What to do if your girlfriend keeps arguing with you?
Talking it over
- Choose an appropriate time to talk.
- Try to start the discussion amicably.
- Use ‘I’ statements, not ‘you’ statements.
- Try to see things from your partner’s perspective.
- And remember: you may not just be arguing the surface problem.
- Keep tabs on physical feelings.
- Be prepared to compromise.
Is it normal for couples to argue and not talk?
Not being able to talk without arguing is actually a common problem a lot of couples face at some point in their relationship. This frustrating situation can develop due to external factors. Sometimes couples just find themselves arguing the whole time without any particular reason.
Why does my girlfriend argue with me all the time?
If you’re always arguing with your girlfriend, it means that you’re taking her too seriously. Instead of being offended, angry, annoyed or shocked by what she says or does, just smile, laugh and relax because most of the time, she’s just doing it to test you.
Is blame ruining your relationship?
Blame can be a really toxic thing in relationships. Being on the receiving end of blame can be exhausting, exasperating and painful. It can make you feel tiny: like nothing you do is good enough or ever will be. It can break down your sense of trust in your partner and replace it with a growing sense of resentment and anger.
What happens if I don’t respond to my girlfriend’s feminine challenges?
If you don’t respond like a man, she will lose attraction, respect and love for you…and start even more arguments! When your girlfriend is able to feel more respect and attraction to you based on how you respond to her feminine challenges of your masculinity, it changes the way she feels about you and the way she treats you.
Why do I feel like my partner is always blaming me?
If you feel like your partner’s behaviour goes further than the above – that, apart from expressing themselves unhealthily, they quite literally blame you for everythin g, from small things to big, then this could be part of a more problematic pattern of behaviour. You may feel that, in additional to being critical, they’re simply unfair.