What should I do if my ex boyfriend keeps contacting me?

If you get hurt when your ex contacts you, it’s time you show your ex that you aren’t interested in conversing with him or her. The best thing for you to do is to advise your ex that you’d like some space and ask him or her not to contact you anymore.

Why did my Ex get in touch after years of no contact?

My ex got in touch after a couple of years of no contact to essentially apologize for being a douche. He took a gender discrimination course at the university and apparently it opened his eyes to a lot of shitty stuff he’d been doing, both to me and to other women. So he messaged me and apologized.

How do you know if your ex boyfriend is coming back?

A big sign that an ex will come back is when they go out of their way to remain close to you. You notice that they’re making an effort to call and message you, they propose hanging out, and they’re even coming to you for advice about things that they could ask literally anyone else.

Why won’t my Ex ask me to take him back?

Some of the most common ones are the following: If your ex is the one that pulled the plug on the relationship, it is possible that their pride is actually keeping them from asking you to take them back. People don’t like to come “crawling back” and this might be enough for your ex to keep their distance. Don’t let this make you worry though.

Does my ex feel guilty after the no contact rule?

In fact, you may learn in the future after the no contact rule that your ex was feeling guilty over some fight that you thought was insignificant. Of course, in order for your ex to feel this guilt you have to give him time in the form of the no contact rule.

What does it mean when your ex contacts you out of nowhere?

It can mean a lot of things when your ex contacts you out of the blue—or it might not mean anything. Dumpers often reach out for little to no reason at all—just to see if their dumpees hate them. In other words, they contact their exes to alleviate their guilt and “apologize” for their unfair treatment.

What does it mean when your ex doesn’t care about your new relationship?

Your ex might be completely indifferent to this new development in your life or he might even be happy for you that you have been able to move on from your previous relationship. Either way, if you are seeing someone new and he does not seem bothered by it, it can mean that the two of you are working to keep your relationship in the past.