What should I do if my boyfriend keeps visiting his ex-girlfriend?

But the focus of the conversation has to be on your feelings, on how his continuing visits to his ex make you feel—uncomfortable and unloved— and feel the contact as a threat to your relationship. You can also tell him that you feel uncomfortable for him, because it makes you wonder whether his kindness is being abused.

Should I stop nagging my boyfriend about his ex?

That doesn’t mean your feelings have to change, but your strategy must. At some point your boyfriend is going to notice you’ve stopped nagging him about his ex.He may think you don’t care about him anymore, or that you’ve learned to trust his word, or that you’re about to slip his ex some poison.

How do I tell my boyfriend that I’m uncomfortable with him?

You can also tell him that you feel uncomfortable for him, because it makes you wonder whether his kindness is being abused. Having said your piece, you must give him ample opportunity to talk.

Does your boyfriend tell you when he is doing something for You?

But your boyfriend is a grown-up. He is free to decide how he spends his time. Here’s the good news: He does tell you when he is doing something for her. He may feel he has nothing to hide. And the sooner you stop trying to control his movements, the sooner he can give up his old pattern.

Is it possible to be friends with Your Ex and partner?

Well, I can tell you from personal experience that it absolutely is. One of my very best friends is an ex, who is now also really close with my current partner. There is no jealousy because my partner knows that we are totally platonic, and that comfort came about after a series of frank and honest conversations.

Why does my partner call his ex-boyfriend after I fall asleep?

“If your partner tends to make late-night calls to his or her ex after you’re asleep, it’s because they have an intimate relationship that doesn’t include you,” Masini tells Elite Daily.

Why doesn’t my boyfriend talk to his ex?

Your boyfriend has taken all of the appropriate actions to get his ex out of his life. He would likely prefer not to talk or think about her. If this is the case, you need to take action to stop dwelling on his past.