What happened to my 19-year-old daughter?

My 19-year-old daughter committed suicide. It happened on a brutally hot night, in July, in Charleston, South Carolina. Janis had attended the College of Charleston for her freshman year, and decided to stay there in an apartment off campus, rather than come home to Myrtle Beach for the summer.

Is it my job to make my 19 year old daughter happy?

Mom, it is not your job to make her into a “happy nineteen year-old person.” That is her job. It is your job to enforce correct and respectful behavior in your house. If she cannot do that, then, she must move out or be put out against her will.

How to get out of a mini life crisis?

Life does work out in the end, so take it one day at a time. You will eventually get out of this mini life crisis and it will be so great. Keep on keepin’ on and let the chips fall where they may. You have so much time to figure out where you want to go and what you want to be.

What to do when your adult child is trying to manipulate you?

The next time your adult child tries to manipulate you or is hurtful toward you, step back and do the following: Whether communicating in person, on the phone, or through text messages, within your mind, rise up and watch the toxic manipulations from above.

What advice Would you give Your Daughter for high school?

This will be long, daughter, but please read it all. 1. Love yourself first. 2. High school is not real life. Be prepared. 3. Some girls/women are just mean. Chin up baby girl — keep walking. 4. If you find a REAL friend, keep hold no matter how far apart you are. 5. Stuff WILL NOT make you happy.

What are some signs of immaturity in people?

Immature people can be thoughtless users or takers. For example, they’ll use friends for favors or car rides. It’s not out of malice, but because they take for granted that whatever they want will be everyone else’s top priority too. When you’re a child your parents pay for most things.

Are some immature behaviors worse than others?

Some immature behaviors are worse than others. Some are unquestionably obnoxious. Others peg you as being emotionally young, but aren’t that harmful. They just make more mature people chuckle to themselves and think, “Ah, I remember being like that back in the day.”

Do people really appreciate maturity and niceness?

People do appreciate maturity and niceness, but it’s not the main factor they consider when deciding whether they enjoy someone’s company. Some immature behaviors are worse than others.

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