What do you do when your boyfriend wants to spend less time with you?
What do you do when your boyfriend wants to spend less time with you?
6 Things You Can Do About It
- Find hobbies to do together.
- Communicate your concerns using “I” statements.
- Put the emphasis on him to make plans.
- Find other ways to spend time together.
- Maintain an active life outside of the relationship.
- Reassess your expectations of a relationship, or find a better match.
Why is my boyfriend not making time for me?
You deserve a boyfriend who wants to spend time with you, who is eager to be with you. Your boyfriend likes you and maybe is even in love with you. He’s in a relationship with you, after all. The problem is that he is prioritizing other things in his life over you. He’s not making time for you.
Why does my boyfriend get tired of me so quickly?
Introverts get drained quickly when spending time with other people. This can even apply to partners. He may simply not feel able to spend loads of time with you because it tires him out. This can change over time as he gets more comfortable around you.
Why doesn’t my boyfriend want to be in a relationship?
Some people like the idea of being in a relationship, but don’t want to put in the hard work required to keep them going. If your boyfriend has had several short-ish relationships and most were ended by the other person, you have to ask yourself why. Perhaps he just doesn’t value your relationship – or any relationship – enough to make the effort.
Will my boyfriend have time for me after we get married?
If you want this relationship to work, you need to accept that your boyfriend doesn’t have time for you now, and he likely won’t have time for you after you get married, settle into a house, and have kids together. Don’t keep going deeper into the relationship with the expectation or hope that he will change.