Should I go to a distant relatives funeral?

You should always go to the funeral if: If you’re an immediate relative of the deceased. If you’re close relatives or friends with someone immediately related to the deceased. If you’re able to take off work and afford any travel needed.

Is it appropriate to ask how a funeral was?

Kind words about the person who has died is always appropriate. However, if you are closer to the family you may want to ask if there is anything you can do to help or express your feelings about the deceased. You should not ask for details from the family about the illness or death.

What do you say to relatives at a funeral?

Things to say at a funeral service

• I’m sorry for your loss.
• He will be missed by everyone that knew him.
• She was a lovely woman and will be greatly missed.
• You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
• When you’re ready, I’m here for you.

Should immediate family be allowed to attend funerals?

“They are giving the immediate family the right to attend the burial process, while still following the CDC recommendation of no more than 10 people gathering in the same space, and invite their family members and friends to attend the service virtually.” Stuempfig noted that there may be some benefits to this option.

What are the DOS and don’ts of Funeral Etiquette?

9 Dos and Don’ts of Funeral Etiquette 1. DO: DRESS CONSERVATIVELY “Modesty reigns. You’re there to listen and learn, not seize the limelight,” Cunningham says. 2. DON’T: SIT JUST ANYWHERE The general practice is that the first few rows of the church or venue are reserved for… 3. DO: ACT

Can you have a small graveside service with immediate family?

Depending on where you live and how you’ve been social distancing, you may be able to have a small service with immediate family, and there are ways to include others in the experience. “Many funeral homes are offering livestreaming of graveside services,” Stuempfig said.

Should I Ask my Child about funerals?

The truth is that I am not the person to ask—ask the child! As soon as children are able to sit still or react appropriately at family events, they should be given a choice about funerals. Funerals are important family rituals.