Is it possible to find your old love again?

The options of finding old loves are much more available today because of the Internet, and people are doing so on a regular basis. Having observed many of these rekindled relationships, I have learned that the past just doesn’t ever determine what options may lay ahead for partners who have left a past relationship behind.

How do you treat your partner in love?

When we first fall in love, we tend treat our parter with a level of respect and kindness that connects to our own loving feelings. But love isn’t just a feeling that comes and goes; it comes from this way of treating each other. We should always try to think of love as a verb. It requires real action to exist and thrive.

Do you fall in love at first but get scared later?

Therefore, we may allow ourselves to fall in love at first but become scared when the relationship deepens or becomes more “serious.” “Love—kindness, affection, sensitive attunement, respect, companionship—is not only difficult to find, but is even more challenging for many people to accept and tolerate…

Can intimate partners rekindle their love later in life?

In my 40 years of counseling couples, one phenomenon never fails to intrigue me. It is how intimate partners, who gave up on their relationship in the past, rekindle their love again later in life.

Do rekindled relationships work?

Rekindled relationships are no more likely to be magically successful, but they do have a few things going for them. The first is that they don’t have to start over. The second is that they come back together with more experience, hope, and determination to make it work.

Why do I keep looking for my past boyfriend?

For people between relationships, their searching may be driven by nostalgia, haunting feelings that they left a past relationship prematurely, or being reminded of a past love. They begin to wonder and question whether they left that relationship for the wrong reasons.

Does the past really determine the future of a relationship?

Having observed many of these rekindled relationships, I have learned that the past just doesn’t ever determine what options may lay ahead for partners who have left a past relationship behind. The people who are doing the searching are sometimes currently in established relationships.