Is it normal to still be sexually attracted to my mother?

Many suppress this attraction and it fades through puberty, and many develop an aversion to thinking about their mother sexually. However, it is a normal variation of sexual attraction that some retain and continue to have it as adults.

Why is my relationship with my mother so important?

Your mother was your first source of nourishment, and your first point of care and contact, arousing feelings of love, safety and trust which are of course essential in a loving relationship.

Is it normal to be attracted to my therapist’s father?

Transference is completely normal. You are not ‘crazy’ for being attracted to your therapist or associating them with your father. The important thing is to bring these feelings to light and discuss them together. Wait it out. If you are feeling trapped by your thoughts and unable to break free, try to give it time.

What happens when you talk to your therapist about your feelings?

If the transferred feelings can be discussed openly and honestly, then new ideas can be pinpointed between the client and therapist. The client will come to realise that their feelings are representations of their inner feelings and are not occurring as a result of their relationship with the therapist.

Why do some men have sexual urges towards their mothers?

So then he turns his attention to the next female that’s closest to him, say his mother, and his sexual urges are directed to his mother because he is not rejected by his mother and he probably knows his mother cares for him so he stands a better chance.

How would you describe a mom’s relationship with her kids?

The way I see it, a mom’s relationship with her kids should be natural and just flow freely with no need for selfconsciousness. Sometimes my kids get competitive with each other so I have to be careful not to spend more time or $$ on one than the other, but that’s the only part I really think about.

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