Is it bad being desperate?

Desperation isn’t bad. But if it goes to a place where it disrupts your life to a level where you can’t get it out of your head – especially when it involves people other than just you – then it’s bad. When it’s just you – desperation is the key to grow in anything.

What does it mean to be desperate for someone?

Desperate means “having lost all hope.” If you are desperate for food, it means you are starving, possibly about to die. If you are in a desperate situation, it means things are really, really bad.

What do you call someone who’s desperate?

forlorn, disheartened, discouraged, demoralized, devastated, downcast, resigned, defeatist, pessimistic. distraught, fraught, overcome, out of one’s mind, at one’s wits’ end, beside oneself, at the end of one’s tether.

Are you coming on too strong?

“If you do most of the talking or texting with another person, it’s a sign you’re coming on too strong,” he said. “For example, you write long blocks of text, but the other person gives a one or two word reply. In most cases, the other person isn’t that interested and is trying to give you a hint.”

Is being desperate a bad thing?

But to answer you in “short”, desperation itself is not bad but the problem comes when someone is so incredibly desperate that they start acting obsessive.

Why is being desperate so unattractive?

I understand your point but there’s a couple of reasons why being desperate is unattractive. Firstly being desperate is worse than being easy. It means that no effort has to be put in, in order to get you. People are attracted to value, and being desperate really lowers a persons value.

Why is the word ‘desperate’ such a bad word?

Probably because it seems lots of reckless, dangerous, and/or violent things have been done out of desperation. As well as being desperate can cause others to feel unsettled, uncomfortable, or unsafe as they may not know how far you will go to get what you want.

Are desperate people more likely to run away?

Just because a person is desperate, it does not automatically mean that they will be devoted. In fact a desperate person by definition lacks grounding, self esteem and rationality and is therefore more likely to run off if in their head they think something better has come along.