How do you convince someone to accept your apology?
How do you convince someone to accept your apology?
7 Steps to a Convincing Apology. (You’re Welcome, Governor Christie)
- It’s prompt. You apologize after you realize you’ve done something wrong.
- Agree on the facts.
- Take responsibility.
- Explain what you did wrong.
- Express regret.
- Make it better.
- Explain why it won’t happen again.
What to say when you don’t want to accept an apology?
“I hear your apology, thank you” This is also a good response for when you feel skeptical of the apology, and you feel as though the person might not be very sincere. It does not show much emotion, but instead is a safe way to move on from the conversation without letting your guard down.
How do you respond to someone who apologizes?
Try saying: “Thank you, I needed to hear this apology. I really am hurt.” Or, “I appreciate your apology. I need time to think about it, and I need to see a change in your actions before I can move forward with you.” Don’t attack the transgressor, as hard as it may be to hold back in the moment.
What do you do when your friend refuses to accept an apology?
When your apology is rejected, take a deep breath in through your nose and exhale slowly through your mouth. Do so until you feel calm and ready to either reopen the discussion or walk away. For instance, if your friend refuses your apology, you can practice deep breathing so that you don’t react negatively to them.
How do you apologize to someone without hurting their feelings?
Keeping Calm and Humble. Keep your facial expressions neutral, but genuine. When apologizing, you are likely being very honest and humble. When that apology is not accepted, it might make you angry, causing your face to tense up or perhaps even turn red.
Do you have to apologize to a friend for personal belongings?
Your friend’s space and time and belongings are his or hers alone, and they do not need to apologize to you for how they use or do not use it. Therefore, expecting someone to apologize to you for how they use their personal belongings and time simply because they have not used it the way you want, is very unreasonable and in fact selfish.
Can a person make a choice not to forgive you?
After a few of my apologies were rejected, I learned that an apology isn’t a guarantee and that people can make a choice not to forgive you. However, forgiveness is a crucial element in repairing a broken relationship, but it’s hard to know how to deal with someone who won’t forgive you.