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How do you ask him what he wants from me?

How do you ask him what he wants from me?

10 Questions To Ask To Find Out His Intentions

  • “Where do you see yourself in 5 years?”
  • “What are your feelings about long-term relationships?
  • “What are your plans with me?
  • “How are you feeling about our relationship?
  • “Are you looking for commitment?”
  • “When do you think someone is ready to get married?”

How do I ask a guy if he wants something more casual?

I know you say you want something casual but you really act like you want something more. What’s up with that?” Act like you’re an explorer on a fact finding mission. Don’t judge what he tells you, just ask open ended questions and listen. Just allow him to express himself and what he feels.

How do I talk to a guy who doesn’t want anything serious?

Then just keep your mouth shut and let him talk… if there’s a lull in the conversation, just let him think and talk. Don’t interrupt. And if he says that he’s just looking for a “casual relationship” or doesn’t want anything serious, say this:

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Does asking a guy if he’s interested scare him off?

If he’s interested then the question won’t scare him off. Asking a guy if he’s interested in me doesn’t make me needy, it makes me smart. If something that little scares him off then he wasn’t ready for a real relationship anyway. He should be able to understand that I don’t want to waste any more time on men who don’t reciprocate my feelings.

What to do when your boyfriend says he doesn’t want a relationship?

Just allow him to express himself and what he feels. If he says he doesn’t think he’s ready or in a good place for a relationship, ask him, “What do you need to do in order to be ready for one?” Just remember… if he tells you he doesn’t want a relationship or that he just wants something casual, take him at his word.