How do others opinions affect us?

We have shown that, when effective, the opinions of others alter a very basic mechanism of the human brain that reflects an immediate change in our values. Social influence at such a basic level may contribute to the rapid learning and spread of values throughout a population.

Which is more important what other people think about us or what we think about ourselves?

“What You Think of Yourself Is Much More Important than What Others Think of You.” -Seneca.

Why do we worry about what others think of us?

We care so much about others because our happiness depends on the quality of our relationships. We want to be in their good books so that we can develop and nurture our relationships with them. Our worrying about what others think of us stems from the fear that we may be bereft of friends or intimacy.

Why is it important to think about yourself?

You have to think for yourself. At times you’re frustrated and unsure. But it’s the key to breakthrough. When you stop thinking for yourself, who you could be gets lost in the mimicry of everyone else’s opinion. Simply, you lose your way unless you’re focused on finding it.

Why is it important to do ourselves what we tell others to do?

Research suggests that self-disclosure plays a key role in forming strong relationships. It can make people feel closer, understand one another better, and cooperate more effectively. Emotional (rather than factual) disclosures are particularly important for boosting empathy and building trust.

Should you care about what others think?

The ultimate truth is that is absolutely okay – even beneficial – to be aware of and care about others’ reactions to you … so long as you don’t lose sight of yourself. But if you think you do place too much value trying to please others, then it’s time to turn the focus on strengthening your sense of self.