How can I get my girlfriend to stop being so drunk?

One exercise that could test her actual investment in your emotional response to her inebriated outbursts would be to record her drunk and then play the recording back when she is sober, thus confronting her with the extent of her capacity for degradation and making your account impossible to refute.

Does my husband hit me when he’s drunk?

All of this indicates that he does have a problem with alcohol and that he does need to stop drinking. Even though he apologizes the next day and promises that he would never hit you, there is no way he can be sure that he could keep that promise while under the influence. In other words, yes, while drunk, he possibly could strike out at you.

Is it normal for my wife to be mean when drunk?

There are experts who define alcohol dependency not by the frequency of drinking but the extremity of the resulting behavior. In my experience, becoming mean when one is drunk is always a red flag. Sends me running for the hills. It would not be unreasonable to ask your wife to get help with her drinking.

Does my boyfriend strike out at me when he’s drunk?

In other words, yes, while drunk, he possibly could strike out at you. He does need to get help with his drinking problem and that could be AA and psychotherapy. However, another problem rises to the surface that may or may not be connected to his drinking and it is that of going to the Internet in search of gay sexual partners.

How do you know if your partner has a drinking problem?

8 Signs That Your Partner Might Have a Drinking Problem 1 They drink to feel happy. 2 They drink with the goal of getting drunk. 3 They have an alarmingly high tolerance. 4 Drinking is above everything else. 5 They start sneaking around. 6 (more items)

Is my wife being mean when she’s drunk a red flag?

In my experience, becoming mean when one is drunk is always a red flag. Sends me running for the hills. It would not be unreasonable to ask your wife to get help with her drinking. Couples counseling that targets this issue could be useful.