Do you want to get married and be smart about dating?

As a result, I have created such a list here, using the opinions that I have heard from tens of thousands of men during my years working as a matchmaker. The fact is, if you are a woman and you want to get married, you need to be smart about your dating.

Should you go to last minute marriage counseling?

This last-minute kind of counseling also, alas, may not really be about trying to fix the relationship, but going so that you can reassure yourself that you’ve tried “everything.” And, yes, if you are breaking up a long-term marriage, interested parties will ask whether you sought counseling, so there’s that.

Do you know when to give up on a marriage?

Knowing when to give up isn’t easy. One study found the top two causes for divorce are cheating (21.6\%), followed closely by incompatibility 19.2\%. Sixty-eight percent of divorced couples in one study said there was one “final straw” or single event that doomed their marriage.

Why don’t men drive in farming communities?

In NYC, men not driving isn’t a surprise, since there is a lot of public transport and cars are really expensive to own, maintain, park, and insure. In farming communities it is more of a shock and issue because there probably isn’t public transport and driving is a pretty vital life skill in such.

Do your girlfriends find it strange that you’re into cars?

Some girlfriends have found it strange, but only one brief fling had a problem with it and she was into cars. I’ve never had a problem getting girlfriends (keeping them is another story) and have never in my almost 44 years had any desire to drive. Cars and driving hold no interest for me. Since leaving home at 18 I’ve always lived in city centres.

What does a man do when he first meets a woman?

When a man first meets this woman, he sees her as a damsel in distress and wants to reassure her that he is nothing like that guy in her past. However, once she accuses him one too many times, he will have no choice to leave her because he can’t go through his life being prosecuted for somebody else’s crimes.