Do you remember trying to make up with your sister?

You remember trying to make up with your sister. You started to believe that you were at fault, that something was intrinsically the matter with you. Being innocent you shared your secrets with this sister only to discover that she betrayed your trust and told your deepest thoughts and feelings to your narcissistic mother.

Did your mother collude with your sister as a child?

As a child, my mother colluded with my sister. My mother laughed at the insults my sister so readily hurled at me. I had no self esteem and felt completely isolated. Their behaviour had a devastating impact on me. I went on to become very well educated, well travelled with many friends and a good job. My sister didn’t.

Why does my narcissistic sister treat me so nicely?

With the narcissistic sister there is no empathy, warmth, concern for your welfare, kindness or compassion. Your narcissistic sister pretends that she cares about you but know that when this happens she is treating you “nicely” because she wants something from you, a narcissistic supply that she is after.

When did your sister start lying to your mother about you?

It started when she was about 10 years old. She would lie to our mother about me, saying that I was following boys and watching them play ball in a venue in the town. It turned out years later she was the one who frequented that venue as a young girl.

What would you do if one of your siblings didn’t want to play?

If one of them didn’t want to play, I would simply hang out with the other one. Sometimes I had the luxury of choosing between the two of them. Sometimes, at night, when my little sister and brother were already in bed and my elder sister didn’t want to play with me, I got bored with ways of entertaining myself.

Why would I Make my Little Sister into a test subject?

So sometimes, in order to make sense of the world around me and prove certain theories, I would make my little sister into my own personal test subject. I had heard about a certain theory that had caught my interest. Supposedly, you dream of the things that you hear around you during your sleep. This was a fascinating concept.

How can I Test my Sister’s theory?

I decided that the best way to test my theory, was by whispering one word over and over again in my sister’s ear. The next day, I would ask her what she had dreamt about. It was a fail-safe plan. Great thought went into what word I would use. I thought about using a boy’s name from her school, but this was too big a risk.

Why do my parents make me feel less special than my sisters?

Sometimes parents see the oldest as more independent and needing less than the younger children. It could be possible that your parents have no idea that their actions have made you feel less special. It is wonderful that you have not allowed your feelings to turn into resentment of your sisters.

How can I Help my Sister find her true love?

Do one thing, find yourself a true love, a girl whom you really like to spend time with. This should help you. Trying your sister can traumatize your sister which would haunt her throughout her life, so be responsible. A brother and father are equally important to her man in her life, so try not to hurt the family values.

Why would my sister want to break ties with Me?

What made her want to break ties with a member of her family. No one does it for no reason at all. At the end of the day, it’s about her. It doesn’t mean she doesn’t love you or care about you as her sister, but she needs her space to not be angry. Let her work it out in her head and maybe eventually you two can talk about it.

What happened to my sister when she went away to Scotland?

My older sister went away with her friend and the friend’s parents to Scotland for a few days and I was at home. The three of three of them ended up with vicious food poisoning that left my sister sitting around not really able to do anything for a couple of days.

What did my brother say to me to act like they’re doing?

My brother said hey let’s act like what they’re doing. I laughed and said ok. So at first he just had boxers on and I had pjs on. I remember he said ok lay down and I’ll get on top. So I did and then he got on top. And started moving up and down like the man in the movie.

Why do my parents treat my sister Better Than Me?

Sometimes my parents treat my sibling better than me simply because my sibling’s younger. I just have to forgive whatever my sibling has done and bear the consequences. Did you find this post helpful? First I want to share with you that I am really sorry to hear that you feel your parents treat your sister better than you.

What happens when you have a narcissistic brother or sister?

If the narcissistic sibling was older one of two things might happen. Friends would either look up to him and perhaps swap allegiances or, more likely stop coming around because he cramped their style. Parents may be manipulated to order you to include your brother or sister with your friends

Why do I get scared when my siblings get closer?

Our parents treat every child equally but we become so used to that attention and care, that when we feel them getting closer to our other siblings we get scared. We start thinking negatively. Why not think positive and feel that maybe its alright sometime to not be the center of attention.