Are you responsible for how others treat you?

Remember, you are not responsible for how people treat you, but you are responsible for how you treat others and yourself. I know you’ve heard the phrase, How people treat you defines them; how you respond, defines you.

How do you not care about how people treat you?

Creating a New Mindset

1. Keep things in perspective.
2. Question your thinking.
3. Let go of perfection.
4. Get to know yourself.
5. Find your tribe.
6. Allow yourself to be vulnerable.
7. Accept a helping hand.
8. Be your own friend.

Are we responsible for how we make others feel?

We are not responsible for the feelings of others (although we are responsible to them), and we cannot, nor do we, cause those feelings to emerge. Unless we do something intentionally hurtful to another person, the feelings that they experience are those that they have created for themselves.

What is being responsible for someone?

Responsibility. Being responsible means being dependable, keeping promises and honoring our commitments. It is accepting the consequences for what we say and do. It also means developing our potential. People who are responsible don’t make excuses for their actions or blame others when things go wrong.

Are We responsible for the choices of other people?

We are not responsible for other people’s choices, behaviors, bad decisions, addictions, the consequences of their choices, their hopes, dreams, character defects, thoughts, feelings, problems, attitudes, and moods. We are responsible for ourselves; we are not responsible for others.

What are we actually responsible for?

So, what are we actually responsible for? We are responsible for our own behaviors, moods, choices, problems, attitudes, happiness, character defects, thoughts, feelings, hopes, dreams, mistakes, the way we treat others, and whether or not we allow others to abuse, manipulate, or mistreat us.

Are We responsible for others emotions?

Generally, we are taught that we are not responsible for others emotions- but this is aimed at freeing people from co-dependency. Where people take on others emotions in an attempt to please them and then somehow fit into their world.

Do you feel over-responsible for others?

If you said “yes” to any of these questions, then you probably feel over-responsible for others and most likely are neglecting your own needs. Codependents Anonymous and Al-Anon help their members learn to take responsibility for their own problems while allowing others to do the same. So, what are we actually responsible for?