Are relationships always unequal?

When ‘I love you’s’ are exchanged, most people assume that means you will both love each other equally as much. But the truth is, around one-fifth of people experience ‘unequal love’: when one person loves more than the other. Unequal love is different than unrequited love.

Why are my relationships one-sided?

Campbell explains that a one-sided relationship involves one person investing much more time and energy (and, in some cases, money) into the relationship than their partner. “Sometimes one person ‘carries’ the relationship for a period of time, such as when a partner is ill or things aren’t going well,” she explains.

What happens when you have an unbalanced relationship?

An unbalanced relationship. If you feel that you give too much in your relationship, resentment will build. An unbalanced relationship can only last so long until you either explode or implode. Exploding may lead to a fight that feels out of control, or even to you abandoning the relationship in a fit of anger and pent-up resentment.

What happens when you give too much in a relationship?

An unbalanced relationship If you feel that you give too much in your relationship, resentment will build. An unbalanced relationship can only last so long until you either explode or implode. Exploding may lead to a fight that feels out of control, or even to you abandoning the relationship in a fit of anger and pent-up resentment.

Why do most people continue to have mediocre relationships?

But the reason most people continue to have mediocre relationships is because they just can’t be bothered to learn how the other person wants to be loved. Not knowing how your loved ones want to be loved is extremely dangerous.

What happens when your partner is not affectionate?

If your partner isn’t overly affectionate, you might feel the emotional distance more strongly. Worry over your partner leaving can also lead you to take on more than your share in the relationship. You might eagerly offer support to keep them from losing interest. While you may not realize it, your actions can disrupt the relationship’s balance.