How do I love myself as an Infj?

INFJ Self Love

1. Notice the effect you have on others. INFJs help people often in more subtle, less direct ways.
2. Be happy helping others. You’re allowed to celebrate good deeds, love and kindness.
3. Let other people know how you feel. Be more transparent about your own needs.
4. Start receiving compliments.
5. Ask for help in return.

How can Infj improve themselves?

Dearest INFJs, you spend so much time working hard, helping others, and improving yourselves that you often forget to reward yourself. It is important to take a step back from our busy lives to replenish our energies and find some time for fun. So come up with a list (see step 1) of rewards that will motivate you.

Do INFJs beat themselves up?

1. Very high expectations. INFJs feel the pressure, but ironically, it’s usually the pressure we put on ourselves. I don’t know about you, but as an INFJ, I’m constantly comparing my success with everyone else’s, and sometimes beating myself up for apparently falling short.

Why do INFJs have low self esteem?

INFJs struggle with self doubt because we see the world so much differently than other people. We see many sides to everything. We see the rational side and the emotional side. We also struggle with our intuition from time to time.

What is a confident INFJ like?

Once an INFJ is confident, they no longer feel badly for needing time to themselves and cancelling plans because they know that the need to recharge is about their own peace and self-care, and not to please others. Confidence as an INFJ means working on yourself, and being aware of your strengths and differences.

What are INFJs like to learn?

INFJs have a high level of tolerance to high levels of learning related stress, but they prefer to evenly distribute their efforts when learning new material and avoid last-minute cramming. What is your personality type? Take the Test!

What do INFJs Love in a relationship?

INFJs love people. They love being with them. They love forming intimate relationships with them. They love surrendering to the connection between two people when all the distance falls away and they each express themselves openly and without censorship. And they love sharing their endless warmth and sensitivity with their soulmate.

Why won’t an INFJ open up to you?

Factor in the INFJ’s fear of being misunderstood, and you have a tri-fold reasoning system of guilt, pride and fear that’s preventing this type from opening up to you. I’ve often downplayed my feelings to my loved ones because to acknowledge any negativity adds to their stress, and that’s never what I want.

What does it mean when an INFJ says take care of yourself?

The INFJ wants you to feel comfortable and unburdened, so they’re kindly putting a stop to a challenging conversation. If this is the case, the INFJ might as well as be saying, “I want to take care of this, but I’m afraid of making you feel uncomfortable or discussing something that could hurt our relationship.”