How do you decline an apology?

Original question: When do you reject an apology? You should reject apologies where the person doesn’t actually apologise, or even chooses words that makes you the guilty party for something they’ve done or said+. Like ‘I’m sorry, but if you hadn’t been there or done that or…’ or ‘I’m sorry you feel that way’.

How do you accept unnecessary apology?

Try saying: “Thank you, I needed to hear this apology. I really am hurt.” Or, “I appreciate your apology. I need time to think about it, and I need to see a change in your actions before I can move forward with you.” Don’t attack the transgressor, as hard as it may be to hold back in the moment.

How do you reject an insincere apology?

THE BASICS

1. A statement that contains a “but” (“I’m sorry, but…”) invalidates the apology.
2. Similarly, “if” (“I’m sorry if…”) suggests that your hurt may not have happened.
3. Vague wording (“for what happened”) fails to take personal responsibility.

What do you do when your friend refuses to accept an apology?

When your apology is rejected, take a deep breath in through your nose and exhale slowly through your mouth. Do so until you feel calm and ready to either reopen the discussion or walk away. For instance, if your friend refuses your apology, you can practice deep breathing so that you don’t react negatively to them.

What words should not be used in an apology?

Sincere Apologies Don’t Use the Word “If” If there’s any word that should be banned from apologies to friends, it’s the word “if.” An example of this is: “I’m sorry if I offended you by making that joke.”

Is it ever too late to apologize in a relationship?

Even if this happens, however, you should still apologize and take responsibility. A late apology (even one that does not repair a relationship) is still the right move to make. Another issue is apologizing in the appropriate place.

How do you apologize to someone without hurting their feelings?

Keeping Calm and Humble. Keep your facial expressions neutral, but genuine. When apologizing, you are likely being very honest and humble. When that apology is not accepted, it might make you angry, causing your face to tense up or perhaps even turn red.