How do you get an obsessive guy to leave you alone?
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How do you get an obsessive guy to leave you alone?
Be honest. Let them know that you are not interested; say this assertively but without being mean. You do not need to list all of his faults and hurt his feelings. Just be clear that you don’t think a relationship (of whatever sort is at stake) will work and that you would prefer it if he leave you alone.
What does it mean when a guy won’t leave you alone?
He doesn’t want a relationship but he wants sex Another possible reason he won’t leave you alone is that he wants to have sex with you. If you’re not comfortable with that, make sure you tell him you’re looking for a serious relationship before you hop into bed with him.
How do I let him down nicely?
Still, if he’s not for you, here are some ways to let a guy down easy.
- Blame Yourself. Instead of putting the blame on the nice guy, blame yourself.
- Be Honest.
- Don’t Slow Walk.
- Offer Friendship, But Make Boundaries Clear.
- Give It One Last Shot.
- Do It Via Phone Or Face-to-Face.
Is your man obsessed with you?
If you are not quite sure if your man is obsessed with you, here are some warning signs of obsessive love: I know it feels nice when he spends a lot of time with you at the beginning of your relationship. But when it is too much, it is simply too much.
Do I have the right to be left alone with my boyfriend?
You don’t have to be reasonable; if you don’t want him hanging around – or following you when you leave, holy crap – then that’s your right. His desire to be your boyfriend doesn’t trump your right to be left alone. He doesn’t get veto power over your decisions if you don’t have a good enough reason.
Should you leave your partner if he doesn’t make you feel good?
If you have a partner who was normal at the beginning of your relationship but who changed over time and he doesn’t make you feel good now, leave him. Your relationship with him won’t get any better. It will only get worse. And the worst thing is that you can’t do anything about that. You can’t change him.
Can a love turn into an obsessive relationship?
They are some of the extreme cases where love turns into an obsessive relationship and the other person in it has no idea she’s dealing with an obsessed person. If you have a partner who was normal at the beginning of your relationship but who changed over time and he doesn’t make you feel good now, leave him.