Is it better to grow up with siblings?

We found strong and, at times, compelling evidence, that belonging to a multi-child family has benefits. Having a sibling while growing up can help a child resist allergies, obesity, and depression.

What is it like growing up without siblings?

Compared to adults who grew up with siblings, adults who grew up without siblings have less frequent social activities with relatives, and the difference is greater among those who did not live with both parents growing up.

Why is middle child the worst?

Rivalry. The middle child often feels the need to compete with both the younger and older sibling for parental attention. They might compete for attention between siblings, as they risk being ignored by one or the other. As they find themselves in the middle of everything, they may also become the peacemaker.

What happens when older brothers and sisters help raise kids?

In instances like these, kids find themselves taking on all household responsibilities, including watching over their younger siblings. Instead of focusing on school and getting to play with their friends and siblings, older brothers and sisters end up helping raise kids themselves – which can add a lot of stress to their lives.

How do I talk to someone who raised my siblings?

Tell us your story. If you were raised by a sibling, or if you raised your siblings, give us a call. Our number is 800-989-8255. Our email address: [email protected]. And you can join the conversation at our website. Go to npr.org, and click on TALK OF THE NATION.

Why are older brothers and sisters the most stressful?

Instead of focusing on school and getting to play with their friends and siblings, older brothers and sisters end up helping raise kids themselves – which can add a lot of stress to their lives. In instances like these, kids find themselves taking on all household responsibilities, including watching over their younger siblings.

Should older siblings take care of the younger ones?

Laurie Kramer, a University of Illinois siblings expert, says that for the older sibling, such an upheaval can be restricting. “The ages from 18 to 25 are really a time of life when you’re exploring,” says Kramer. “If the older siblings are taking care of the younger ones, they’ve lost that opportunity to be free.”