What does it feel like to be discarded by a narcissist?

Sharing is caring 938 Being discarded by a narcissist is one of the most painful experiences victims endure…well, after the heart-wrenching devalue phase.   It’s like icing on an insidious, poisonous cake for which only narcissists hold the recipe. The Discard After being discarded, you believe it’s your fault.

Why do narcissists go crazy when you go no contact?

When they lose said control, this illusion is shattered. This explains why they shift into turbo gear when you implement No Contact. No Contact makes the Narcissist feel small, worthless, and powerless. They whip themselves into a frenzy because they need your supply to maintain their false image.

Why does the narcissist come back after months?

Victims often believe that when the narcissist comes back after months, it’s because they’re in love. Allow me to share the Narcissist’s perspective on the topic of love, written by John Howell:

What do narcissists say when they love you?

Allow me to share the Narcissist’s perspective on the topic of love, written by John Howell: When I say I’m in love with you, I mean I love the way I feel when I’m with you. I love myself through you. I love seeing myself through your eyes. I love seeing myself through my eyes imagining how I look through your eyes.

Will the narcissist ever give you the time of day again?

So much so that it often destroys lives. Many people who feel they’ve been discarded truly believe that the narcissist will never give them the time of day again…indeed, that the narcissist can barely stand to be in the same room with them or even the sight of them. To add insult to injury, they believe they’ll never see the narcissist again.

Do narcissists get bored easily?

Narcissists get bored very easily. Initially, they are intoxicated by the chase and the conquest of a new partner, and they are prone to magical thinking and idealization, which means they often believe all of their problems can be solved by “the right person.”

Can a narcissist get you Back under his spell?

Consequently, he will eventually devalue and discard her, too. If you’ve been discarded, you should use it to your advantage and ensure he can’t get you back under his spell.   Many individuals in this position allow the Narcissist back in and end up being the “Other Woman”.