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How do you end an affair gracefully?

How do you end an affair gracefully?

The first step to ending an affair is to make a firm decision that you ARE ending it. If there is anyone you trust, tell that person what you are doing and that you have decided to end it. Let them become your support, you encourager, and, if necessary, your courage. The second step is to end the affair NOW.

What do you say to end an affair?

Contact your affair partner, and, if your spouse knows about it, have her witness your ending the affair. Say something like: “I am breaking off our relationship. I regret having become so deeply involved to risk my marriage and hurt my spouse.”

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How do you say goodbye to an affair partner?

To end the affair, I suggest that you and your partner sit down and write a letter together to the other person (affair partner). The letter should mostly be written by the person who had the affair, because it’s critical that he/she starts to take responsibility for the choices that were made.

How do you know the affair is over?

How to Know If Your Spouse Ended Their Affair

  1. 01 of 05. You Have Access to Their Phone. This may feel authoritarian for you and invasive for them.
  2. 02 of 05. You Are Both Honest.
  3. 03 of 05. They Validate Your Feelings.
  4. 04 of 05. The Marital Issues Are Addressed.
  5. 05 of 05. You Can Forgive.

How do you end an affair?

Instead, do it by email, letter, or text. (Or, you can choose to not contact the affair partner again at all.) Ending an affair by phone is OK, but the betrayed spouse needs to be on an extension or it needs to be held over speaker phone. This is not a time to unload on the other person. Ending the affair is the only goal.

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Is it OK to end an affair over the phone?

It is not a good idea to end the affair in person. Instead, do it by email, letter, or text. (Or, you can choose to not contact the affair partner again at all.) Ending an affair by phone is OK, but the betrayed spouse needs to be on an extension or it needs to be held over speaker phone.

How do you go no contact with an affair partner?

The two spouses decide on how the letter to be sent. If by regular mail, it should be done together. If via email, then send it with both spouses present. Then you block the affair partner’s cell number, unfriend him/her on Facebook and other social media accounts – and go no contact.

What should you not do after an ex-Affair?

Do not indulge in daydreams, wishful thinking, fantasies or musings about the ex-affair partner (no matter how harmless or innocent you might feel it is) **NOTE: This one is, by far, the most important (and sometimes, the most difficult).