Are Narcissists overly nice?

Narcissists are very nice until they don’t get their way. They are great charmers and can get most people to do and accept things that they wouldn’t in their wildest dreams imagine themselves doing or accepting. Narcissists are often very adept con artists.

Can a narcissist be sweet?

9. They’re suddenly really sweet again the moment you show a hint of independence. Narcissists are often dubbed emotional vampires for a good reason: they need your constant attention and affection to feel ok (but ironically, treat you like trash once they get their fix).

Are You being fooled by nice treatment from a narcissist?

Don’t be fooled by nice treatment. The narcissist cannot sustain such treatment over the long haul. Good happens behind the scenes. Good is constant, and includes an apology when we slip up. Good doesn’t look to see who might be watching. Good is doing right without first checking to see how you will benefit.

What does it mean when a narcissist sets a trap?

The narcissist is setting a trap when he is being nice. He hopes you will forget that he’s setting a trap. The cheese might be diamonds or dinners or promises of good behavior. He might set the trap with organic peanut butter, just to change things up a bit, but he’s still setting a trap.

How do narcissists keep partners off balance and stuck in relationships?

Learn how narcissists keep partners off balance and stuck in relationships through the use of a behavior cycle that alternates between mean and nice. This is the tool the narcissist uses to bring you down to their level.

Can a narcissist sustain this treatment over the long haul?

The narcissist cannot sustain such treatment over the long haul. Good happens behind the scenes. Good is constant, and includes an apology when we slip up. Good doesn’t look to see who might be watching.