How can I find someone who understands me?

If you express yourself to them, they will come to understand who you are as a person….Pursue relationships with meaningful people.

1. Express interest in you.
2. Ask questions about your life.
3. Make you feel safe around them.
4. Respect you as a human being.
5. Share details about their own life.
6. Are open and honest with you.

How do you make someone understand something?

It Improves With Listening

1. Practice listening well in everyday conversations. Really pay attention to what the other person is saying.
2. Tune in to feelings as well as story. When a friend tells you about something, try to imagine how he or she might have felt.
3. Take time to listen to someone in depth.

How do you know if your friend understands you?

20 Incredible Things Only True Friends Understand

1. You are thankful for their honesty.
2. You appreciate them for being selfless.
3. You are concerned about the details in their lives.
4. You are protective of them.
5. You don’t exert any boundaries with them.
6. You don’t keep secrets from them.

What do you do when someone is not understanding?

So What Can You Do When People Don’t Understand You?

1. Know why you need people to understand you.
2. Understand how you contribute to the misunderstanding.
3. Gauge whether the person is interested in understanding you.
4. Let go of the need to explain.
5. Focus on oneness, not the differences.

Why do I Feel Like other people don’t understand me?

As with any other trait, your way of thinking was shaped by your environment and the actions of people around you, by your genetics, and grows and develops as you do. Therefore, it is common to feel as though other people don’t understand you, because no one is going to think the way you do.

How can I get someone to understand me?

If you want someone to understand you, you could talk to them when they are calm and willing to listen, and ask them to try to put themselves in your shoes. If someone is not willing to do so when asked, that is probably not a good relationship to have and you should end it.

Why is it so hard for people to understand me?

It isn’t easy for human beings to understand that which they haven’t yet experienced themselves. They misunderstand or misinterpret you because they have yet to feel the experiences and situations you’ve been through. It doesn’t make them purposefully oblivious or ignorant, they’re still learning.

Why can’t we always expect others to understand what we are going through?

We cannot always expect others to understand what we are going through because many times they may not have experienced this kind of situation, emotion or feeling for themselves. To be able to relate in that way is called empathy. Empathy is true understanding, and it happens when people can related and put themselves in your shoes.