How Do You Talk to an INTJ?

Be straightforward, never be passive-aggressive. INTJs appreciate bluntness and refrain from emotional drama when discussing about things that matter to them. They’re known for their bluntness and honest feedback. Thus they expect others to do the same.

How do you get an Intj attention?

Someone who is honest and straightforward is often rather appealing to the INTJ, since it means they don’t have to deal with someone who isn’t trustworthy. They are drawn to a direct person who is capable of being sincere with them.

What is INTJ doorslam?

INTJs doorslam, as far as I am aware, on the basis that people are wilfully ignorant (choose to be irredeemable idiots immovable by logic) or that people are two-faced / dishonest.

When do INFJs door slam people?

There are some instances where an INFJ is forced to have continued contact with a person they’ve door-slammed — such as when that person is a co-worker they see in the office every day. In these situations, the INFJ does an emotional door slam.

What happens when an INFJ shuts the door on a relationship?

When an INFJ decides to slam the door on a relationship, their emotional state changes dramatically. They go from being sad, hurt, and disheartened, to being level-headed, rational, and even cold. This can be slightly disconcerting to people who are used to seeing their INFJ as warm and gentle.

How do INFJ’s Grieve?

INFJs grieve the loss of the relationship before they actually sever their connection with the person. They acknowledge that the relationship they had was based on an illusion and didn’t actually exist. By the time the door slam actually happens, they have accepted things as they are and have moved on emotionally.

Why are INFJs so emotional when they break up?

The reason INFJs get to this place of strength is that they grieve and mourn the loss before they actually lose the connection with the person. This makes it far easier for them to accept that the relationship they thought they had was based on an illusion and what they thought they had didn’t actually exist.

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