How do I stop caring for my child?

A clear message. Consider the daily messages you send to children about the importance of caring. For example, instead of saying to children “The most important thing is that you’re happy,” you might say “The most important thing is that you’re kind and that you’re happy.”

How do you treat your child?

These include:

1. Show and tell. Teach children right from wrong with calm words and actions.
2. Set limits. Have clear and consistent rules your children can follow.
3. Give consequences.
4. Hear them out.
5. Give them your attention.
6. Catch them being good.
7. Know when not to respond.
8. Be prepared for trouble.

What happens if you don’t care about anything?

There are obviously some situations where not caring may have serious negative consequences (see paying your rent). Excessive caring, however, is likely to make you miserable. The reason caring too much can be detrimental to your health, is you’re so focused on the future. Your identity is too attached to outcomes.

Why doesn’t it feel as good to help a child?

“It doesn’t feel as good to help a child when you realise she’s one in a million. You feel bad that you can’t help everyone and those bad feelings come in, mix with the good feelings and devalue the good feeling.” It also has to do with how much of an impact people feel their actions can have.

What is caringcaring and how can it help you?

Caring has become your knee-jerk reaction. Doing it too often robs you of the chance to feel comfortable in the moment and view the future with confidence. Instead of giving in to your habitual reaction, think about how you would like to feel. This moment of reflection gives you a chance to set a positive emotional goal.

How do you deal with not having a lot of friends?

Sometimes the best way to to solve a problem is to just stop caring (see: not giving a damn). Sometimes… The best way to solve the problem of not having a lot of cool friends is to stop caring about having cool friends.