How can I get over my wife?

Accepting That It’s Ending and Moving On

1. Tell your friends.
2. Stop trying to hurt your spouse.
3. Tell your spouse goodbye.
4. Give up responsibility for your spouse.
5. Give up your spouse’s responsibility for you.
6. Set some goals.
7. Clarify who you are without your spouse.

How do you get past a hurt marriage?

How to Ask for Forgiveness

1. Show true contrition and remorse for the pain that you’ve caused.
2. Be willing to make a commitment to not hurt your partner again by repeating the hurtful behavior.
3. Accept the consequences of the action that created the hurt.
4. Be open to making amends.

How can I help my spouse overcome his past sins?

We can plaster a smile on for the watching world and pretend that everything’s fine, but, more often than not, our spouses know the truth. Fighting against the wreckage of our spouse’s past sins involves fighting against the present manifestations of our own sinful hearts.

What should I do if my girlfriend’s past bothers me?

My girlfriend’s past bothers me: the #1 thing you must do  To say “her past bothers me” or “my wife’s past bothers me” means in some way you’re casting judgement on it. Judgement is one of thekey emotionsthat drives retroactive jealousy and so learning to let it go is of primary importance.

How do I stop talking to my Wife about her past?

(Which we’ll get to in a moment…) So be disciplined with yourself, and commit to STOP talking to your wife about her past— at least for the next two months. And stop the Facebook/social media stalking as well. I can promise you that no good will come from it.

Is your husband obsessed with his wife’s past?

Sometimes, a husband has been troubled by his wife’s past since before their engagement. Sometimes, a husband only starts obsessing about his wife’s past years, or even decades, after the wedding.