How to deal with a dis-likable person?

If a person causes you to feel exactly the same way every time, adjust your expectations appropriately. This way you’ll be psychologically prepared and their behavior will not catch you by surprise. Smart people do this all the time. They’re not always surprised by a dis-likable person’s behavior. 5. They turn inwards and focus on themselves.

What makes us cruel to other people?

Fear and dehumanisation. Sadism involves enjoying another person’s humiliation and hurt. Yet it is often said that dehumanising people is what allows us to be cruel. Potential victims are labelled as dogs, lice or cockroaches, allegedly making it easier for others to hurt them. There is something to this.

What to do when you don’t like someone?

Excuse yourself and go on your way. If at work, move to another room or sit at the other end of the conference table. With a bit of distance, perspective, and empathy, you may be able to come back and interact both with those people you like and those you don’t like as if unfazed.

What do you call someone who gets pleasure from hurting others?

Someone who gets pleasure from hurting or humiliating others is a sadist. Sadists feel other people’s pain more than is normal. And they enjoy it. At least, they do until it is over, when they may feel bad.

How do you deal with people you don’t like at work?

If at work, move to another room or sit at the other end of the conference table. With a bit of distance, perspective, and empathy, you may be able to come back and interact both with those people you like and those you don’t like as if unfazed. Of course, everything would be easier if we could wish people we don’t like away.

How to deal with a difficult person in Your Life?

Find a way to live a peaceful life – without the difficult person’s negativity being a constant in your life. Keep the toxic person at a safe emotional distance. Feel good that you are operating as your highest self. So make sure you remain a kind person. Yes, even to jerks. Let them be a jerk.

How do you deal with ungrateful people?

Don’t do anything for them. Don’t spend time talking to them. Especially don’t spend any time listening to their whining. Appreciation is what we give in return when we receive something we want, and since they’re apparently clueless on the balance in your transactions with them, stop giving.