Why does a narcissist play the victim?

Playing the victim or feeling like a victim may stem from lower self-esteem, low empathy, or a need for control. In every case, because NPD is a mental health condition, this behavior is linked to the symptoms that define the disorder and not to a personal choice.

How do narcissists find their victims?

“They get targeted if they are in good shape, they exercise a lot, and take care of their appearance. I’ve also seen people specifically targeted if they are of a religious faith, then the person either tries to get them to do things that go against their faith principles, or somehow break [them] down.”

How do narcissists gain control of their victim?

Fake tears or no tears at all

Can a narcissist be aware of his condition?

It is rare for narcissists to know (or to accept, if they do know) that they have an illness, in the same way people with other mental illnesses do, such as people with depression or anxiety. For example Australian broadcasting network SBS interviewed a diagnosed narcissist, who had been in treatment for 10 years.

How to avoid becoming narcissist’s victim?

Whenever they confront you with multiple questions, look them straight in the eyes. Eye contact makes them face the other direction. Change the conversation. Narcissists want to know a great deal of information about you. Question more. Have self-confidence. Loosen up a bit. Preserve your personal space. Stay calm and decompress. Identify your insecurities.

How can you control a narcissist?

Narcissistic personalities are quiet stuck in their own habits. You can control a narcissist from time to time, but you will never be able to break these habits completely. For this reason, it is often ill-advised to pursue a romantic relationship with a narcissist.